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Influence Isn't Optional

You Have More Impact Than You Think

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Sociologists tell us that even the most introverted person will influence around 10,000 people in their lifetime. That means every one of us - whether we realize it or not - has a platform.

Think about it: every conversation, every practice, every classroom moment, every text, every handshake. Each one leaves a mark, big or small. Over 80 years of living, the average person will encounter somewhere between 60,000 and 80,000 people. That’s an incredible ripple effect.

Your Presence Is Already Shaping the Future

Here’s the truth: you’re already influencing people. It happens in the way you speak, the way you carry yourself, the way you respond under pressure. The real question isn’t if you influence others - it’s how.

And often, the influence we underestimate the most is the everyday kind. The encouraging word after a tough loss. The way you model patience when things don’t go your way. The quiet consistency of showing up when others don’t. These are the moments that leave lasting fingerprints on the lives of others.

Stewarding Your Influence

Influence is a responsibility. It’s not just about numbers or reach - it’s about being intentional with the impact you’re making.

Remember:

  • You have more impact than you think.
  • The responsibility is great.
  • Use every avenue to leverage your influence.
  • Reproduce your influence - develop others so they can lead, coach, and inspire in their own circles.

Multiplying the Ripple Effect

The players you coach, the colleagues you encourage, the kids you teach, the families you connect with—they all carry a piece of your influence forward into the world. When you pour into others, your impact doesn’t stop with them. It multiplies, traveling into communities, teams, and future generations you may never meet.

This is why stewardship matters. If we’re careless, we pass on frustration, cynicism, and negativity. But if we’re intentional, we can pass on hope, resilience, discipline, and character.

So today, pause and reflect: How are you stewarding your influence?

Because your impact is greater than you think - and it’s shaping the future right now.